first online date gone wrong!

[Chiara]

I met this man online and we talked for about 1 month before setting up a first date, we really got to know each other oh so I thought. The first date was setup and he wanted to do something really nice and surprise me so I said ok. The date went really well, we went to see butterflies then barnes and noble walk around then out to dinner. The date went well with a good night kiss, then he asked if we could watch a movie the next night, I said ok and when he got there he said lets pop the movie in. We watched the movie and talked about actors & movies and nothing else... as soon as it was over, he basically ran out of my house. Then I get an email the next day saying "He flees when he gets nervous and he felt that I was pushing expectations on him on our second date." Again we chatted about movies and actors at what point could anyone put expectations on someone? Needless to say 3 weeks later he dropped me an IM and proceeded to list everything I did wrong on the date. Nothing he said made any sense.. it was like we were on 2 very different dates. So even though we talked for about 1 month prior to setting up the date, he was definately not the same person. I think he may have had a few people in his head.

[Joe]

What a weirdo ??? so what did he say you actually did wrong?

[Electrajean]

You know that sounds like something I once experienced as well. At least he told you things, the guy I dated did not. We dated for about a month or so, and he then just would not talk to me. So who knows, what the heck happened. Sorry it was weird like that for you too.

[maddy]

my friend was a simple girl. She was living a normal life. Only she had little secret that was not a big deal to her, but was to a life she was once a part of. However, when a really attractive new guy, raj as she knows him at first, starts going to her school and asks her on a date, her life is turned upside down. When he kidnaps her on a date, that little secret of hers unravels even bigger secrets that have been kept from her since she was a little girl. She could have never imaged a date that could have gone any worse.

With her life in the delicate balance, she does everything in her power to escape his seductive grasp; only it entangles her into more trouble, and she goes places she would have never thought about going, not even in her wildest dreams. Will she be able to survive this potentially deadly date?

[Hunk]

He ran away without saying anything!!!! Crap!!! Is he nuts or what?? Thank God I didn't did anything like that and was very happy to stay with my girlfriend as much as possible.

[sunrisepink]

Oh my gosh! That’s a horrible story! Seriously, that was totally his fault, not yours. It sounds like he has some real issues. Do you think maybe he met someone after your date and then gave you all of those excuses just to put you off track? Cause it sounds like he really did enjoy himself that night, but then got distracted or scared off later.

The thing is that you never know what’s really going on inside guys’ heads. The only thing you can do is chalk it up to a learning experience and move on. There are tons of great guys out there and I’m sure you will find the one for you!