So, you’ve been dating someone for a few weeks who you’re totally crazy about. You seem to get along really well, but you’re not sure whether your date really likes you, or is just going along for the ride. Here are some ways to tell whether you should suggest taking your relationship to the next level.

1) They’re interested in spending quality time with you.

If a date sees you as just a casual fling, they are likely to be more focused on having fun than really getting to know you. If they only call you when they want to party, that’s probably a bad sign. A person serious about your relationship will be interested in going out to quiet dinners so that you have time for a decent conversation.

2) They ask you questions about your family.

Someone who is really interested in you knows that they will eventually be meeting your family. This means that they will probably ask a lot of questions about them in order to prepare themselves. This is also a way for your date to learn more about your past and where you’ve come from.

3) They spend their free time helping you with not-so-fun tasks.

If your date gives up their Saturday afternoon to go grocery shopping with you or stand in line with you at the bank, it’s quite possible that they’re interested in more than just a casual relationship. This person is demonstrating that he or she would rather do boring things with you than exciting things with someone else. And in this fast-paced world, that says a lot.

4) They think about you even when you’re not together.

You told your date that you’re wild about chocolate, and the next time you see each other, they give you a candy bar! Little gestures like this show that your date is really listening to you, and thinking about you even when you’re not around. Other good signs include thoughtful text messages, e-mails, and phone calls.

5) They ask you out on a holiday.

If your date wants to spend New Years Eve, Valentines Day, or Christmas with you, chances are that your date thinks of you as their main squeeze. They see you as a pivotal person in their life, and someone they want to show their most special moments with. In other words, you’ve got it in the bag!